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My Baby is 1–Her Birth Story

Month 1PLEASE NOTE: if you are a prude, get offend easily or are grossed out by birth stories you should probably stop reading. If however you are none of those things read on. Month 2

On Friday June 18th 2010 I had my 40 week check up. This date was my original due date from my first ultra sound and the date that my doctor went by (I went by the 15th which was the date we got at our second ultra sound because it was closer). At my doctor’s appointment I found out that I had finally dilated from 1cm (which I had been since 35 weeks) to 3cm and 75% effaced. She swept my membranes for the second time (she did it the week before as well).

Month 3I had been losing my mucus plug since the day before and later Friday evening I started to get my show. I didn’t want to get myself excited because I didn’t want to be let down if I didn’t go into labour so I just went on with my evening. We went out for a walk and went to the mall and got some Chinese for supper (BIG MISTAKE). Around midnight I started get coMonth 4ntractions, I started timing them and they were coming every 3-6 minutes, but didn’t seem to be getting stronger so I didn’t think too much of it. I tried going to bed a bit after midnight but could not sleep because I was uncomfortable, so I came out and watched TV with Stefan. Around 1:30am we went to bed and Stefan slept and I didn’t, so at 3am both of us came out and watched TV until 5am when we decided we should head to the hospital.

Month 5When we arrived they checked me and I was 4cm along. They asked me if I wanted drugs and I said no. I really wanted to try to have her naturally (I am terrified of needles and was really scared of the epidural). I had to be put on an IV right away because I was Strep B+. By the time 8am came around I had already thrown up my Chinese food from the night before because I was in so much pain and I decided to get the epidural. It was really hard for me to finally sayMonth 6 yes to it because I had been very set on going naturally. They could not get me the epidural right away so I was given fentanyl via IV, which I highly recommend because it really helped with getting the epidural. It took two shots to get the epidural needle into me because the first time I was getting electric shock feelings in my back and legs.

Month 7Right after I got it my doctor that would deliver Capri and a student doctor came in and checked me and broke my water. I was now up to 9cm and we did a few practice pushes. Stefan had run to get some breakfast and got back just in time to get ready to help me push. At 9am I started pushing, and it was nice because even though I had the epidural I was able to feel when I needed to push. Stefan was very brave and helped the nurse hold my legs when I pushed. He watched my whole delivery process. I pushed for the next hour and a bit and the doctor came in to help with the end of it. I did notMonth 8 like the end of the pushing it BURNED so bad. I pushed and pushed and they finally put the vacuum on her head to help get her out. She finally came out and the first thing I saw was the student doctor holding her leg and it looked like she was hanging upside down over the edge of the bed. I told him to be careful and to not drop her, he then showed me that he had her head as well. She arrived at 10:19am on June 19th, 2010. She was 21 inches, 8lbs 14 and 1/4 oz. They put her on my chest and let her cord pulse until it was done and then they cut it.

Month 9They took her to clean her and I delivered the placenta which was not bad at all, it just fell out. They started to stich me up and I only had one real tear and it was only first degree. It was however not very clean and the doctor and student doctor took their time figuring out the best way to stich me up. At one point the student Month 10doctors cell phone started ringing and he couldn’t answer it and it was really funny. They told me they were taking their time to make me look nice down there just in case I decided to go into the porn industry in the future. The doctor also almost sewed the interns’ finger onto me, and we joked that it would be really awkward having him around.

Month 11Everything after that went fairly well. I did faint after getting out of the shower however but Stefan caught me (I had the water too hot), it scared the crap out of me. We breastfed for the first time within the hour after she was born, and have been breastfeeding for 1 whole year now. Month 12

Birthday Wish List

birthdayI turn 24 on April 15th. I love my birthday, I am one of those people who growing up I had the HUGE countdown until my birthday just to make sure everyone would remember. And now I shall blog about it.

April 15th 1987 I was born via c-section because I was upside down (or right side up depending on how you look at it haha). The 15th of April has a lot of meaning and my dad and I have a long running joke about my birthday. I get a card every year from him saying things such as “happy sinking of the Titanic day”, or “Happy Tax Day In America”, or even “Happy assassination of Lincoln Day” (Lincoln was shot on the 14th but died on the 15th). So I have a very happy day of birth as you can see.

But what I love most about my birthday is presents. I am kind of a present person, I love getting gifts. So this is my birthday wish list for 2011.

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Item 1. Toms Shoes

I love Toms shoes, I own 2 pairs right now. They were each my birthday gift the last two years. I have worn them out pretty bad and need a new pair. I would love the classic black canvas and the classic red canvas.  These are my all time favourite shoe and it is all I wear (well I wear flip flops as well). They are super comfy and are such a great cause – you buy a pair of shoes and a pair of shoes is given to a child in need, check it outtoms-shoes-red-canvas-men-s-classics

PS I wear a ladies 9.

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Item 2. Baby Hawk Mei Tai

The Baby Hawk Mei Tai is one baby carrier I do not own yet and I want one. It is an Asian inspired carrier that is a mix between a soft structured carrier with buckles and a wrap. They are super pretty and to be truthful I really want one to wear to one of my best friends weddings.

I really want a black one with a pretty pattern for the panel, because I feel like I will be able to use it for all the formal events I go to (which is obviously a lot). And it will just add to my addiction collection of baby carriers.

Item 3. 50mm Canon Lens10082166

After trying one of these lenses a few years a go a fell in love. I currently have my standard issued 18-55mm lens and my telescopic lens but I would love a fixed lens. I have seen so many great photos taken with one and I would love to add it to my camera bag (speaking of I really need a bigger one of those as well as mine is too small to fit my camera and lens as is).

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Item 4. Klean Kanteen

I was able to score two of the smallest Klean Kanteen’s for Capri with the sippy cup lids and I fell in love with them. I would love to get one of my own seeing as the other day I took hers with me when I wanted to have some water and just took the sippy lid off to drink. So I would like a more grown up version. I love the cap with the loop to hook a carabiner to it and attach it to the diaper bag. And they come in pretty colors which I am all about. Maybe if I carried water with me I would be less tempted to buy other drinks and actually get my appropriate amount of water intake into me.

Item 5. Cotton Woven Gauze Wrapwrap

Someone I follow on Twitter (@Joyfulabode) has a facebook site where she sells some awesome stuff. Like these very pretty cotton gauze baby wraps. They are light but strong enough for baby. You can use them for back carries which is our new favourite way of babywearing. I have another woven wrap but it is pretty heavy and not good for summers. And these are just so pretty. And I really like that they are made by someone I know…and when I say know I mean follow on Twitter.

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Item 6. A New Sewing Machine

I love to sew but my machine is old (it was my moms) and I get annoyed with it every time I use it. I would love a new one with fancy stitches and an easier bobbin loading area. I don’t really know what kind I want but something from this decade would do.

Item 7. An Ipod dock51BO5oaBh6L

I love to fall asleep to music and with Stefan working a lot of night shifts I can do that. Except my Ipod touch won’t turn off by itself if I put on a super long playlist and I don’t want it going all night. so with an Ipod dock I can set it to turn off after a certain amount of time, and it will charge for me.

So that is my birthday wish list for this year. I expect to get one thing off of this list (my TOMS because I actually need them) and everything else is just…well a wish.